Although two are needed for sex, a man is not the key to your sexual freedom. Whether you are single, married, or in a relationship, you must learn the following 30 rules of so-called bed etiquette:
1. Talk about what you want in bed. A man cannot read your thoughts, and if he is unable to please you, tell him what is wrong. Be patient.
2. Stop imitating orgasm. If you pretend more often than you have an orgasm, this is only your fault. After all, a man may think that you are always good, and therefore are not looking for new ways.
3. If you want to receive, you must give. Selfishness is not sexy.
4 ... but do not satisfy the one who is not ready to satisfy you. The right man never puts his pleasure above the female. It just excites how excited you are.
5. Do not be afraid to be loud. You shout, moan, or something like that - be yourself, express your emotions as you like.
6. Do not write off a man whose first sex was not very.The first time with a new partner can be very awkward. For great sex you need practice, so do not judge strictly.
7 ... but if he does not want to try, he is not worth it. If he wants to satisfy only himself, let him do it himself. You deserve the best.
8. Never meet a man who does not ask you before you try anal sex. The main rule of sex is the consent of both partners.
9. Masturbation is not just for men. Even studies show that women who masturbate regularly experience the best orgasms.
10 ... and this is not something you must do alone. There is nothing sexier than when you tell a man that he cannot touch you while you “touch” yourself.
11. You should know your sex rules, but be open to the new. We all have what we do and do not do, we learn in the process. You can say that you do not want to do something, but if in time you change your mind, do not be afraid to change the rules.
12. You should not always say yes. If you do not want to have sex, do not let anyone put pressure on you.
13 ... but if you keep saying no, it ruins the relationship.If you want to create emotional intimacy, then there must be physical.
14. Your body is beautiful. Full or thin, with big breasts or with a small, with a rounded booty or flat: you are fine, just know how to wear it. And do not let anyone tell you that it is not.
15. Do not keep near men who do not consider the prelude to be necessary.
16. He should not always initiate sex. Try it, you might like it. And he will definitely like it.
17. If you have sex without a condom, it's time to talk. Discuss the status of your relationship: are you sure you only meet each other (to avoid sexually transmitted infections), or what if you get pregnant?
18. Do not underestimate the importance of kisses. This is the key to your emotional intimacy during sex.
19. Do not judge someone else's sex life and do not compare with yours. Although a friend says that she has a lot of sex, do not be in a hurry to envy, maybe this is not true or she imitates everything.
20. If you are not sure whether you have an orgasm, then it was not. But this is only an incentive to work on this further.
21. You can withstand his morning breathing. So maybe he. Especially when it comes to morning sex.
22. Buy yourself sexy lingerie.Not only for him, but for himself. Choose the laundry in which you will feel like a goddess, no matter if there is someone nearby or not.
23. In sex is not a place to squeamish. We are all adults, disorder and some inconvenience - this is part of the sexual contract.
24 ... so do not be afraid to swallow. So it will be even neater, and scientists have repeatedly argued the benefits of male sperm.
25. Do not underestimate the importance of kisses. This is the key to your emotional intimacy during sex.
26. Speak if you want. No need to talk, but if you feel good and want to say so, tell me.
27. In a long relationship, keep all sexual details secret. It is not necessary to tell all your friends, otherwise it will not be intimate. Let sex be your special moment for two.
28. You are sexy for a man when you are sexy in your eyes. He does not see the flaws of the figure that you see, he sees your attitude and confidence.
29. Use your and his body to the maximum: your hands should never be idle, touch the person, not the pillows.
30. Enjoy. Leave all experiences for later and just let yourself relax.