Confidence in your relationship can easily turn into complacency and apathy. The fact that you do not always try to get into the pants of your spouse gradually turns into the absence of intimate life as such. Time passes, and you suddenly realize that you have not had sex for several months. Soulpost presents 5 warning signs that can help couples avoid a lack of sexual intimacy in a relationship.
This is normal if the couple has different sleep patterns, but if you and your spouse never spend time in the bedroom together - this is a big problem. This means that you limit the very possibility of initiating sex.
Being an adult is tiring, being an adult in marriage is even more tiring, and if you have children, it is completely draining. Feeling tired when your partner wants to have sex is a normal reaction. This happens to everyone, but if you come up with this excuse every time - wait for trouble, especially if your partner behaves the same way.
The orgasm is amazing, but the essence is not in it. 99% of sex - this is what leads to orgasm - touch, kiss, caress. But, if a married couple feels tired or is bored with each other, their sex life focuses on achieving orgasm, and not on enjoying the process.
One of the best things in marriage is that your partner loves you enough to unconditionally forgive some of your minor flaws. For example, when you release “gases” in bed or wear the same T-shirt every day. But it can harm your sex life. A healthy intimate life requires work and, yes, part of this work is related to your appearance. If you want more sex, you should look after yourself.
Sometimes you experience a period when you and your partner are on a different wave. You feel that you can’t talk to him or don’t want to share things that happen in your life, and you are sure that he is doing the same. When married so much unsaid, it can affect the sex life.