He wants to have sex. You have a headache…
He wants to have sex. Tomorrow you have a difficult and responsible day ...
He wants to have sex. Now is not the right time of the month ...
Men and women have different desires and needs regarding sex. Over time, intimate life can be at such a level that you can not remember when you last had sex. And this is a good reason to feel preparish.
If you are in this position, you need to understand how to change things. And here are 5 tips on how to do this:
Connect to each other on another level
Often sex goes into the background, because you simply do not have time to be together in any sense. It happens that you do not just do not go to bed together, but do not even have time to have dinner, or have breakfast together, or chat during the day.
Try a date or a romantic weekend weekend. You can spend the evening watching a movie at home. This will strengthen your connection and remind you of how you were when you first met.
Tell him what you need.
It is quite simple. Sometimes guys are wrong. Maybe they finish too fast without allocating enough time for foreplay. Perhaps he always chooses poses that do not work for you. But your man will not know about it if you do not tell him.
Start a conversation with a compliment and use pleasant words. Then tell him what you want in bed.
Pretend to achieve
In other words, tune in to sex to get in the mood for it. This is a fairly simple solution, but you will be surprised how well it works.
Make an appointment
Women get excited faster when they feel sexy. Prepare for sex with him. Take off your sporting home pants, gum from your hair, take a shower, do a haircut, put on seductive lingerie and dress and meet him from work fully armed. You will feel incredibly sexy.
Start a languid wait
Women need time to warm up properly before sex, and this does not necessarily apply to foreplay, it is about mood.
To lay this "sexual foundation", use the old method of erotic correspondence. While both of you are working, start a naughty conversation with your man.Heat up his interest in what will happen in the evening when you see him. He will be looking forward to meeting you.