Constantly discussing the search for love and separation, it seems we are already beginning to think that this pursuit, these experiences and sufferings, is love itself. We know the signs when relationships have no future, but can we recognize those that can bring us happiness?
Often our relationships are not wrong, they are simply not the way we represented them. Here are a few signs that you may already be in the right relationship:
1. You feel calm.
Previously, you would have been delighted with this. But now you can think, what if it means that a romantic spark just passed? The truth is that love, which stays for a long time, with which you create respectful, intimate, real relationships, brings you peace of mind. Comfort, not panic and excitement.
2. You know how to solve your problems by the type of past relationships.
When a situation arises that reminds you of a past relationship, you already know that you can solve it. You understand that for the sake of this person you can even let it go, and that this person is ready to meet you.
3. You understand that nobody is responsible for your happiness, except yourself.
When most people give up in love, it’s because they reach a point where their partner no longer makes them happy. The harsh reality is that no one can make you happy - at least not permanently.
Unhappy periods will come and go, but your connection must be stronger. The key to this is fueling yourself, your happiness beyond relationships.
4. You have a huge level of acceptance of each other.
Usually many people underestimate this, but this is important. The right relationship is one in which both of you accept and respect each other completely. In other words, you are not trying to change each other.
5. You want the same thing in the long run.
You have to have the same goals for your life: life in the city or in the country, have kids or dogs, or both, and others? If one partner has to sacrifice some their life ambitions and desires for the sake of the relationship, they will not develop.
6. You both want it to work out.
In all respects, there are difficulties. It is almost always possible to cope with them - it all depends only on the willingness of partners to do it. It takes a lot of effort, compromise and sacrifice, but with the right person it only strengthens the connection.