I must confess. Sometimes, when my husband suddenly thinks about something, I just look at him and think: I wonder what is happening in his head now? Not that we don't speak. We are talking. But sometimes I don’t care if he’s really happy in our marriage. And I know that not alone in this. Wouldn't we all like to know what is in the head and heart of our partner? And although we cannot do it yet, there are several signs that a person is unhappy.
1. It is cold and hot.
It is angry and confusing - when he is crazy about you, it seems completely indifferent. And it drives you crazy. According to psychologists, such inexplicable changes in behavior are a sign that a person is unhappy and is trying to convince himself of the opposite or simply does not know how to tell you about it.
2. He became irritable.
If earlier he was not like this, but began to change only lately, it is possible to fall on you, often get angry for no reason, out of this, become less patient, you should take a closer look at your relationship.This is one of the clearest signs that a person is unhappy.
3. Your relationship does not develop.
This may not be so obvious, unlike the previous sign, but if you notice that your relationship is standing still and not progressing, you need to think about why. Usually, relationships develop naturally: from dating to meeting friends and parents, joint holidays, living together, etc. If this does not happen, then the person intentionally does not want to develop relationships.
4. He begins to find fault with everything that you do.
When you first started dating, you all found each other beautiful, or at least tolerant. But if now a person begins to find fault with everything, then surely he as a whole is unhappy in your relationship and breaks down on you. He can not say directly about the true causes of such behavior, and therefore trying to make you extreme.
5. He suddenly became very distant.
Perhaps he is trying to figure out his feelings for himself, or maybe he has already decided everything for a long time, but has not told you yet. In any case, it is important to immediately talk about everything and decide what can help you.
6. His compliments have become strange.
Yes, even compliments may indicate that a person is unhappy. He can say something like: “I am not worthy of you”, “You are such a perfect / good / beautiful”, etc.