It's always hard to leave. But it is a part of our life and an important stage of growing up. Partings make us revise our life and improve it.
So even when love knocks us down, it can help us up. Any relationship, regardless of how it ended, gives us valuable lessons.
And no matter how bad you feel after the next separation, always remember that relationships make us better and stronger in many aspects.
You get a perspective.
When you are in a relationship, many areas of life recede into the background. But after the break, you immediately see the whole picture and you understand that it is time to focus on something else besides relationships - but at least on yourself and your loved ones.
You are aware of what you want and what you don't.
Relationships are one big experience. They teach us what we want from life, from a partner, and what we don't want. After parting, you understand what you need for happiness, and what you need to do in the following ways.
Over time, you understand how you want to be treated, what you are willing to put up with, and what not.Parting means that you do not settle for less than you deserve, and that’s fine.
You become more independent.
After a break, you have a more distinct feeling of being alone and that you can only rely on yourself. You do the most on your own, and you start to like it. Partings teach us to trust ourselves more. And it is contagious: people will be attracted to your confidence.
You renew relationships with old friends.
No matter how hard you try to balance all areas of your life, when you are in a relationship, you will inevitably spend more time with your partner than with your friends. But after the break, you have time for those close people who lacked your attention. You have more understanding of how important they are to romantic relationships.
You will be much better in the following relationships.
You learn the lessons of past relationships, you become aware of your mistakes and improve.
You improve your life and health.
There is something magical about parting, because they motivate us to take care of ourselves, our health, our body, and in general, improve our lives.
You will know what you are capable of.
In the end, parting makes us stronger.They temper us and restore us to a new love and a new life with new forces.