So you went on a date with someone, and she seemed pretty to you. You decide to organize a second date, you know what you need to do?
1. Invite her to the second date at the end of the first date.
An excellent reason: to invite her to go somewhere or do what she likes, what she told you about. For example, if she likes sushi, then invite her to a new sushi bar. If your date was good in principle, then the invitation to the second will not leave her time to think about the first - she will already be preparing for the second.
2. Write to her or call the next day.
It could be a simple message. “It was a pleasant evening. Looking forward to the next. ” Or call her and say about the same by phone. Don't try to wait a day or two.
3. Do not expect sex from her and do not press on her in this matter until she is ready.
Do not rush her, enjoy the acquaintance. You are adults, and there are no rules about when to have first sex.If a woman decided that she wants to wait a month - respect her decision.
4. Be positive and fun.
Don't call your ex. Do not complain about life. Show your good points.
5. Listen to her.
Ask questions. Listen to the answers. Many men try to impress a woman with their achievements. But women like to meet at a deeper level. She wants to talk to you heart to heart - be ready.
6. Do not be distracted by other women when you are with her.
If only you look at the other, you can not wait for a second date with her.
7. Give her a compliment.
No need to say compliments the whole evening - she will think that you are cuddling. One or two times is enough. Especially since she tried to look good for you. But do not forget to mention her mind or character trait, and not just her appearance.
8. Do not agree with her in everything.
Otherwise, she will consider you weak and henpecked. It will not attract her. Argue with her, do not be afraid to express your opinion, even radically different.
9. After the second successful date, make the third active date.
This can be a walk in the park, on the beach, with dogs. Let her introduce you as a couple.It should not be a monotonous date on a table in a cafe - let there be something active so that you begin to get to know each other from different sides.