The most beautiful
Dear women, I want to share with you some of my thoughts related to the fact that most of our world has been interested for centuries - of course, about female beauty.
Each girl, when she looked at her preening mom, dreamed of sometime becoming the same, the most beautiful, too. Growing up, later looking at the beauties from the cover of magazines or from TV screens presented herself in their place. Then the question arises - how to achieve this ideal, how to become the same?
For all our life, we fill our imagination with pictures, beautiful images. These are our stereotypes, and many psychologists take everybody to believe that they are imposed on us and in our best interest to give them up. Dear women, I will tell you differently: saturate, to your health, your imagination with these beautiful pictures, because they give you such a wide range of experiences - from admiration to anticipation of striving upwards. It is these aspirations that drive beauty, fashion, and the whole world as a result.Life is beautiful if there are paints in it, so why can't we absorb them in ourselves, and sometimes even become objects of admiration and aspiration.
So let us return to the very question - who of all those who want to be the most reaches its apogee, gets into the league of the most beautiful and significant, and who is out of the game. And so, they are beautiful, sexy, successful women. Who are they ? They are lucky - you say, they were born beauties - others will say. They have made themselves - I tell you, because only under this condition will they always be like this.
The story of the "Ugly Duckling" is relevant for many years, and this is not accidental. After all, this story is repeated every day by a swan. And this is not only about those who were probably joked and teased before, because in the history of any beautiful swan there is a beginning when he was “not ripe”. Only the desire to be the best, has grown a swan out of him, and now he is hovering above the horizon conquering vast expanses.
And so, from all of the above, you need to make one important conclusion - the most beautiful one is the one that wanted to become one. But the second question is being asked: the majority of conscious women, perhaps no less, wish it.Why are they, wanting this a couple of pain, do not achieve the desired? And here's the answer for you - it is contained in the question itself. “Pain” is a figurative definition of everything that a person develops in himself after he has filled his imagination with beautiful pictures. Pain is our complexes, fears, feelings of dissatisfaction and insecurity. where we not only do not become swans, but moreover turn into neurotics. Conclusion - “pain” impedes us in the path of our maturation. For only having a bright mind and a free world perception, we can become who we are.
And so, the following question appears: How to do it?
To do this, I will step by step describe the plan for “Capture and Neutralization”, which you should produce in your imagination:
You need to retire in a quiet room, where you can fully immerse yourself in the world of your feelings, where nothing will distract you. Being alone with yourself, try not to think about routine, everyday affairs. Try to imagine that you are in a cozy place where you feel good and pleasant.
2) Find and focus on pain:
Now that you are completely relaxed, open to yourself all the feelings that you have when thinking about achieving your ideal of beauty. Do you have any unpleasant feelings, fears, etc.? If so then you are on the right track. Remember these feelings.
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3) Finding agreement with your “I”:
After you have found your “pain,” the main goal is to find reconciliation with your inner feelings. You should not criticize yourself for your fears and complexes - this only leads you to a dead end. It should be realized that any sensations born by your imagination are initially created for your protection and benefit. Just like physical pain, mental pain works for you initially and maintains a constant comfortable environment for you.
4) Find what your imagination protects you from:
Since you have become more supportive of your inner world and are trying to be in harmony with it, it will not be difficult for you to find what your body initially wants you to protect you from. Immerse yourself in yourself, try to analyze your experiences.
5) Find the appropriate resources that can replace the already hardened, but lost its original value  "fictitious" goal.At the same time, do not enter   into conflict with your inner self, maintain your comfortable environment. Only by being in harmony with yourself you will reach heights.
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Good luck dear women
Dr. Nigar Nazarly.