Do not be afraid to think about what happened to you this year: that you did good, but more importantly - that you did bad. Remember the people you hurt, the people who hurt you. When you gave all yourselves, and when you had to give yourself, but you were afraid to be rejected.
Remember the cool feeling when you tried something new, and self-loathing when you stopped and never tried, just because you were afraid.Think about how much better it is to risk and face the danger of failure than just staying in your comfort zone.
Be both kind and hard.Forgive yourself for all the mistakes made, but learn from them.Give these errors meaning to make sure they are not made in vain. Admit that you were at times stupid, selfish, lazy and cowardly - and no longer be like that. Grow it, be the best person.
Remember the times when someone needed your help, and you didn’t do anything. Promise yourself that next time you will act differently -Enter the new year with empty eyes and an open heart, always looking for ways to make someone's life a little or much better.Do not be another, as it is called in the statistics, with the "effect of the witness." Do not be an observer, try to actively help, and you will see how quickly the rest will follow your example. Do not forget that even a small display of kindness on your part for someone can mean much more than you think.
Recognize all the benefits that you have received this year, especially when you even became embarrassed - this is a sign that you understand how much your life can be easier than others. Say thanks to the people who helped you.Be proud of your achievements and your hard work, but do not forget about those who helped you with this.Find a way to thank these people and help those less fortunate than you.
Think of the days when you let something small hurt you a lot, even if you knew that it didn't matter. The next time someone bumps into you on the street and doesn't apologize, just let go. Remember that this person did not get up in the morning with the intention to offend you, so do not bother about it. He has already forgotten about you, so you forget about him.
Remember all those cases where you did not listen to your inner voice.For example, when you knew that you should have kissed that person, but you didn’t kiss. Or when you screwed up and had to apologize, but were too stubborn. Or when you abandoned that cool position, although you knew that you needed a change. Accept the fact that even when you don’t like what your inner voice says, it’s usually right.
Remember all those things that you were sure would make you happy, but this did not happen.Remember how initially you were passionate about the new salary, or apartment, or phone, and how quickly you got used to them. Remember how quickly you jumped from one to another, and how the next new thing still did not bring you happiness. It’s not that a new phone or apartment needs to be thought of as evil — you just need to understand their purpose: entertainment, pleasure, pleasant distractions. And not the answers.
Remember the moments when you were uncomfortable, and understand that it was then that you grew and developed the most. There are many joys in life.But do not confuse lightness with happiness. Pthink about the moments when you were worried and nervous, and how it made you go to something or become someone better.
Say goodbye to 2015 with hope, gratitude, admiration and interest.Say goodbye to him with the knowledge of where you should go next.It is normal to be afraid, to doubt, to be agitated by all that you want to have time to do. Just do not allow yourself to be paralyzed by this fear. Waiting for you too much of everything amazing, you can not miss.