I look much prettier than my husband

People constantly ask why I chose him, they say, he is not in my category. They ask, they say, maybe I just wanted to be safe, that this certainly will not leave me.

I remember the first time I apologized for my appearance.
I was in 7th grade and my friend and I went to the store. She was looking for a gift for her mom and asked the seller to help with the choice. It was a student guy, and he started talking only to me.

He asked if I was looking for a gift for my mother, if I needed something. A friend stood and waited until he nevertheless approached her.

I don't know why, but it was then that I began to apologize for how I looked.

I lost count of how many uncomfortable and awkward situations happened to me because of my appearance. And with my husband, we are faced with this from the very beginning of our relationship.

I thought it was our own business, but no. And people do not raise this topic, when we are with him alone, but only when we are alone. For example, in the toilet of a restaurant, in the queue for an order - in general, when girls and boys disperse in their companies to discuss something, and then questions begin.

We both heard horrible and unpleasant things.When we bought a new car, someone asked if my husband sent me to negotiate with the seller to distract and bring down the price. My colleague once allowed herself to assume that I had experienced rape, and now chose such a husband to feel calm.

My husband and I deliberately decided not to have children, and many were joking, saying: "Well, yes, otherwise the child will be like him."

And this happens about once a month.

I'm crying. It hurts. Husband reassures, even if it offends him.And it offends me that people are so mindlessly insulting our relationship.

I answer by saying that I love my husband and that I like him. I tell him how he conquered me with his mind, sense of humor and kindness, but no one wants to hear about it.

Everyone prefers the story "Beauty and the Beast."

They do not believe me. They have already formed an opinion before asking me anything.

And you know, I do not even want to respond to vile comments in the style: “But he is very clever ...”. Because it so happens, as if I justify him for the fact that he is not handsome. As if a person must necessarily succeed in something, if he has not succeeded in beauty, which, by the way, does not depend on him.

We just live in a society obsessed with appearance. And, apparently, we will just have to enjoy each other’s company, which by the way is much nicer and more useful for our relations.


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