When he says that he no longer loves you, let these words penetrate you.
No matter how unreal they seem, let them become your reality. Let yourself slowly recognize their meaning. Let your mind accept it.
It takes time, yes.
Because no matter how prepared you think you are, no matter how awesome this terrible moment is, you will still be shocked. No matter how strong you are, these words will still shake you.
You cannot believe that a relationship that seemed so close to perfect to you was a lie. You can not believe that you did not have immunity to parting with him. You can't believe that all this happened.
Most importantly, you can’t believe that the one you loved left completely. You remember all that was between you. As you thought he was the only one you can rely on. How happy you were with him.
When he says you better break up,trust him. He can sweeten the truth and say that he is not sure about the future. He may want to look good and keep friendship with you.Maybe he just does not have the courage to tell the truth. And although you had many pleasant moments in the past, there is no place for you in his future.
Maybe you are still important to him, but this does not change the fact that he no longer wants to be with you.
When he says he wants to break up with you,trust him.Even if he is sorry that he is hurting you, at least find solace in the fact that he is trying to be honest with you. He stopped loving you and lets you go so that you can find someone who can love you.
Suffer it and then let it go. Believe that although you do not want this, this is the best option. You deserve much more than the one who loves you no more. After all, when one person admits that he does not want to be with you, you can not do anything else, nor should you. This is not your fault, and nobody's fault, but it happens for reasons unknown to us. And this pain will slowly, but surely, pass away and become better.
Remember that often the most beautiful times come after the darkest periods. And in a few months or years everything will make sense. This loss will be the beginning of a new path. Believe that the best is to come.
When he leaves, do not consider this an irreparable loss.Consider it a service that he provides you. Consider it a blessing. Lesson. Because your life does not end on the day when he stops loving you.
On the contrary, this is the beginning of the rest of your life, and you know that it will be incredible.