Psychologists believe: “At the initial stage of the relationship, we recommend not to touch on past sexual experience, material issues and not immediately make plans for a common family future. These topics can close the inner world of a person with whom an acquaintance begins, and may cause additional stress in communication. In the beginning it is better to be interested in each other, as a person with his own history, habits and hobbies, which he is ready to talk about. ”
Is life worth discussing with the newly elected one?
- In the candy-bouquet period, people only met, they sympathize with each other. If we touch upon the topic of life, this may scare away further development of relations, even if initially these relations had very high chances for the future. Why? Because life is already some kind of commitment. These are other roles. These are not two people who like each other, between whom there is still some intrigue. Life is already two people who have obligations, and this can hack romantic relationships in the bud.Of course, if a man and a woman decide to live together. So before you move together, it is worth discussing in detail the topic of life.
In other words, serious topics - family, children, wedding - are strictly contraindicated?
- Not really. If they occur naturally during the conversation. For example, a man came from a wedding of friends, he really liked her, and he wants to share. Then everything is ok. But if this is a previous test of a partner, in order to test it for compatibility or “suitable” immediately for the role of a husband or wife, then of course not. In this case, of course, that a woman or a man will feel the manipulation and simply run away. I propose to live each pair with the pleasure and mutual interest of a romantic beginning of communication. Due to this, many complex issues are then easily solved.
The beginning of a relationship exists so that each of the participants can determine:
Interestingly, each participant needs answers, both men and women.