I sat near the house on a bench late at night and cried. The guy I liked didn't answer my message ... again. Maybe I was too emotional or maybe I drank a little extra, but it’s not worth saying that it was not the first time.
It was hard, because all my friends told me that he was just playing with me. They said that he was fooling my head, and only then I realized what an asshole he was. He just liked to flirt and fall in love with girls, refuse them and watch them crawl to him on their knees.
It is very difficult to realize the real essence of a person, especially when your eyes are covered with a veil of feelings.But after such pain, sometimes you just need to sit down, sober up and understand that you deserve more, and he does not deserve you.
We never want to believe that a guy can manipulate us, play, because our feelings for him are real, and no matter how many times our friends warned us, we did not want to listen. Every girl faced with this type of guys at least once in their life, and even more often, despite the constantly present warning signs.
These are those for whom we are too good. Friends say this, they say find another, but we can not. Because over time, they say with despair: "I no longer know how else to explain to you."And we cry, telling about how he went on a spree again, and we say that, he says, he got confused, he cannot understand himself.
It is not difficult for him to write to you only at 2 am on Saturday, asking where you are, and lifting you out of bed. But it is difficult for him to respond to your message. It can be fun, but only when he wants it, and you need more.
In a relationship there can be some kind of intrigue, flirting, a game, but only up to a certain point.If you start to constantly think, and who are you for him, what is the status of your relationship, such a game gets boring, and your heart breaks.
Unfortunately, boys are boys.Remove your status "everything is difficult" in social networks. Never return it, and do not look for a boy for yourself, look for a man.