Modern relationships have become a game in which the one who takes the least care and attention to the partner wins. In this scenario, we turn into a person who has feelings, but without reciprocity. And, instead of leaving, we try with all our strength, we put our soul into the relationship with the chosen one, who is not worth the effort, because we want to get what we don’t have.
But we should not allow someone to neglect us, feeling insecure in themselves. We should not allow late calls in the middle of the night and invitations to go home, flirting with other girls, feeling that we are being imposed on him when we make an appointment.
We should not write to guys who are not going to answer us, publish photos in the hope that they will notice it and put a mark like "I like." They do not deserve to be in our heads, not to mention the heart.
We should not constantly try to speak when they say they are busy.
The wrong person will undermine your self esteem in order to maintain relationships.It makes you feel guilty for responding too quickly to a message, provokes you to analyze every little thing and think about what you did wrong.
Healthy relationships are not a game of conviction. The right man is the one who meets you and instills confidence in you, in him, in your future together.
You don't have to fall in love with guys who treat you like nothing. Such a relationship - a good life experience, no more.
Understand when the connection does not go well, find the strength to leave. It will not be easy, because your heart loves him, but logic dictates that he is not the one you need.
Unfortunately, sometimes people like to like others, but they can not always reciprocate. They adore the attention, care, efforts to keep their interest. They like to see how you react to them and know that you will always be there.
But you should not be with someone who constantly upsets you.
We should not sympathize with people who treat us like an empty place, but sometimes it happens.
The main thing that you need to realize in this situation is: when you invest time, emotions and energy in someone who cannot reciprocate you, you miss the person who is really suitable for you.Because a person who deserves you will never make you feel like a nonentity.